“I made one mistake and going to regret it for the rest of my life.” Does this phrase keep repeating itself into your head again and again? I want to ask you a simple question, how is your relationship going? You might be saying this to me, “Hey, we’ve heard about this more than enough, we don’t need your advice, thank you!!” in your head. I am not here to give you any advice; you are intelligent enough to tackle any situation and mindful enough to not put yourself in jeopardy. The only reason I am here is to clear your head about the relationships.
Well, you actually suspected your partner is doing something wrong with you, but you didn’t raise your voice against him/her as you didn’t want to jeopardize your relationship and now you are paying for that mistake. You are acting very well in front of the outside world that you are okay but from inside you are killing yourself every moment with hatred for yourself and the questions which you have been asking yourself, “What was my mistake? Could I try better to save our relationship? I should not have done this, maybe that was my mistake?” Please correct me if any of this is wrong but I assume that it won’t.
You don’t want someone who falls in love with your face and not your soul. If someone left you for your looks than you are lucky enough because you and I both know that nobody is going to be young, beautiful or flawless as always. What if that person leaves you at the stage where you need him/her the most (the time when you are just about to step into your old age). You don’t expect someone to be loyal throughout life who thinks pointing out genuine mistakes of his/her family is an allegation that tainted one’s reputation. In case, the reason behind your separation is growing misunderstandings and you were tired of trying hard to explain your loyalty towards your partner, your decision to part ways was right.
Remember, relationship means faith and when someone loses faith in you then it’s no longer love as it would turn into something noxious. Be courageous enough to fall in love again. You have got a very beautiful life and it is diminishing every moment. So, please relive your life as you deserve everything you dream about and someday someone is going to look at you like you are the best thing in this entire universe. As Martin Luther King Jr. said, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that”.